Be Struggle Free

July 17, 2010
By Twenty Twenty

Mom and Baby by Carol Wingert

Hey mate,

I’d like to help you struggle much less. I struggled for way to long before I got a few simple things. Here they are:

  1. Struggle. It’s only an option.
  2. Guilt and shame, those are options too.
  3. What is – is. What isn’t, isn’t.
  4. I love you.

Struggle, it’s only an option. It’s not the only option. Many people I meet, notice, train and coach seem to live as if struggle is the only option.  It’s not.   Just a quick heads up.   So real quick, make “Struggle is only an option” part of your daily mantra.  End your love affair with struggle and do what it takes for you to succeed and feel good, and do it today.

“Opt out of the options of guilt and shame too.” Because once you realize how much of the universe – including your body – including your behavior – including your mind – is absolutely outside of your control – and outside of your awareness – you’ll never feel guilt or shame again.   Here is the key, just live with a high level of intention, make your decisions with a high level of intention, and you will notice that everything is A-OK.

“What is is – what isn’t isn’t.”  That might sound obvious, but really, just take a peek around.  All day long people addicted to stress and complications are mostly being the programmed response to something that definitely ISN’T.   STOP IT.  Next time you are “out of control”, feeling stressed or just nuts…  Just stop and notice if you are behaving again as if “what isn’t”  is real.  That’s the main problem that shows up when I am consulting men who are having problems with women, couples in crisis, and broke entrepreneurs and other nice folks who are stressed out.

“I love you.” Because YOU ARE LOVE.  As far as I can tell, after 20 plus years of self exploration, personal training and coaching, etc – the only thing you and are REALLY is a loving awareness that wants to know itself.   Look around, we want loving awareness from other people.  We want to give loving awareness to other people, our pets, our gardens.  We ARE loving awareness.

That’s it.  Have a great day.  Leave some feedback will ya?

Mr Twenty Twenty

The man who dedicated his life to taking a simple honest look at love, live, and people – noticing what we are and what we are truly capable of.

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Mr Twenty Twenty is that guy who legally changed his name to the number of "Perfect Vision". He lives his life, focused on helping people develop the inner resources they need to live their personal visions, while discovering who and what we "really are". If you enjoy his writing, let him know by emailing him at 2020@exhostage.com.
Twenty Twenty

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3 Responses to Be Struggle Free

  1. Tracey on July 17, 2010 at 6:33 pm

    And that IS the Way IT IS! Great article, Twenty! Thanks for the heads up! Have a great day! I AM!

  2. Woosa on July 22, 2010 at 2:43 am

    Spot on on the guilt part. It was getting the better of me for 3 or 4 years and leading me towards a negative feedback where I would choke myself into apathy and oblivion because the guilt made facing “”reality”" that much harder.

    What is, is and what is isnt. I wasnt really guilty of dropping out of college and wasting my parent’s money, so many factors played into that.

    But I was only able to shine and became a 4.0 student once I forgave myself and got on with it. Just get on your horse and get going!

  3. Buz on July 31, 2010 at 11:58 am

    Twenty,

    What an amazing post.

    My favorite insightful quote: “a loving awareness that wants to know itself…” Brilliant, my friend, simply brilliant.

    Loving awareness to you,
    Buz

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