Moon by Carol Wingert

Do we really need another?

Really, do we need another?  Do we need another article about red clover and it’s healing benefits?  Do we need another post about living up to your potential?  Do we need another lecture on following your dreams?

In other words, what are you hiding behind?

“What am I hiding behind?”

Seriously.  I’ve been writing mostly drivel for most of my life now, with some good chunks thrown in once in a while.  But most of it, is drivel.

I’ve been writing stuff I could hide behind.   I suspect you’ve been doing the same.

“But not today.  I am so tired of hiding, writing stuff that “fits in” with megatons of other stuff that’s out there.”

It’s time for me and you to…

It’s time.

It is.

“What will you reveal to the world, once you have decided to stop hiding?”

Let me know.

Mr Twenty Twenty

Photo by Carol Wingert

“What that means is you need to get a life!”

He has way too many dream books, wonders what that pain in is stomach REALLY means, and he’s asking me what a Red Hawk, circling overhead 4 times and flying off to the North – North West means.

He asked, I got blunt, “What that means is that you need to get a life!”

Really, if you are living your life, you probably aren’t going to be putting EXCESSIVE time into adding in EXTRA MEANING.

“Sometimes a dream is just a dream.  Sometimes that tummy ache is just a tummy ache (related to the drinking of 2 liters of generic soda pop every night) and sometimes a Red Hawk is just a Red Hawk.”

Everything is a cosmic bitch slap, a wake up call, the opportunity to touch and be touched.   Everything.   Why not really peek into your being today, and touch someone with that.

“Sometimes we start wanting to READ into everything, when we aren’t WRITING the story of our lives.  Write the story of your life, discover who and what you really are.  You will be glad you did.”

Mr Twenty Twenty

Photo by Carol Wingert

There are times in life, if you want to experience more success and satisfaction, that you’ve got to abandon “your truth”.

“Abandoning your truth is sometimes easy.     Abandoning your truth is sometimes challenging. Abandoning your truth is always enlightening and liberating.”

What truth will you abandon today?

The Secret of Putting “your life” into Perspective.

Because when it all comes down to it, your eyes are just a few centimeters apart, your ears, just a few inches. From fingertip to fingertip – or from head to toe, you probably are more or less 6 feet in length.

Because when it all comes down to it, you probably will be in this particular earth suit (body) for about 70 to 120 years, if you are lucky.

And if you think “your truth” is THE TRUTH, and choose to behave as if YOUR TRUTH IS REAL, you are simply blocking, ignoring, and holding so much out.

“What is – is so much bigger than your body, and “what is” is so much longer than your tiny little bit of time here on earth. Abandon your truth, and discover more of what is real.”

Discover what is real about “you and your world”.

And if you have a moment, let me know what you discover!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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Hey mate,

I’d like to help you struggle much less. I struggled for way to long before I got a few simple things. Here they are:

1. Struggle. It’s only an option.
2. Guilt and shame, those are options too.
3. What is – is. What isn’t, isn’t.
4. I love you.

Struggle, it’s only an option. It’s not the only option. Many people I meet, notice, train and coach seem to live as if struggle is the only option.  It’s not.   Just a quick heads up.   So real quick, make “Struggle is only an option” part of your daily mantra.  End your love affair with struggle and do what it takes for you to succeed and feel good, and do it today.

“Opt out of the options of guilt and shame too.” Because once you realize how much of the universe – including your body – including your behavior – including your mind – is absolutely outside of your control – and outside of your awareness – you’ll never feel guilt or shame again.   Here is the key, just live with a high level of intention, make your decisions with a high level of intention, and you will notice that everything is A-OK.

“What is is – what isn’t isn’t.”  That might sound obvious, but really, just take a peek around.  All day long people addicted to stress and complications are mostly being the programmed response to something that definitely ISN’T.   STOP IT.  Next time you are “out of control”, feeling stressed or just nuts…  Just stop and notice if you are behaving again as if “what isn’t”  is real.  That’s the main problem that shows up when I am consulting men who are having problems with women, couples in crisis, and broke entrepreneurs and other nice folks who are stressed out.

“I love you.” Because YOU ARE LOVE.  As far as I can tell, after 20 plus years of self exploration, personal training and coaching, etc – the only thing you and are REALLY is a loving awareness that wants to know itself.   Look around, we want loving awareness from other people.  We want to give loving awareness to other people, our pets, our gardens.  We ARE loving awareness.

That’s it.  Have a great day.  Leave some feedback will ya?

Mr Twenty Twenty

The man who dedicated his life to taking a simple honest look at love, live, and people – noticing what we are and what we are truly capable of.

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I learned this from a Native American elder and friend of mine years ago. The anthropologists are obsessed with “the peace pipe”. And yes, it’s considered HOLY, but what is more important is what is smoked in it, and why.

“Tobacco, it’s the “thank you plant”. Traditionally smoked for inspiration and thanksgiving. When you meet someone on the trail, or have someone over for dinner, you smoke with them. Sitting in silence, being grateful, discovering new connections and inspirations together.”

The Genetic Connection.

According to a really cool book called, “The Davinci Method”, there are a group of people called “DaVinci’s”, who have a specific gene called the DRD4 gene activated. These folks are the true creatives and healers, and they benefit from smoking tobacco.

“Because smoking tobacco helps them especially be more creative, because of how it helps them generate a specific kind of brain wave. Think about this, and look at how many cool creative folks smoked cigars. People like Mark Twain, Winston Churchill, and so many others.”

“If you want peace in the world, don’t focus on peace, focus on what generates peace.”

Putting first things first.

If I am thankful for what I have in my life, and creative with it THEN of course I am going to be peaceful. I won’t be bitching about folks, I won’t be thinking that I have to steal their stuff to become happy. I will already be there, because I put first things first.

“So be thankful, and explore your power of creativity. And consider this. What if it was STINKING THINKING while smoking that causes cancer, not the smoking itself?”

Stinking thinking makes you weak, it makes you hold your breath and it makes you ugly on the inside.

Just some thoughts, based on observation, experience, and some old Native Ways.

Let me know what you think, feel free to leave a comment.

Mr Twenty Twenty

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Here is my easy to use, top secret Craigslist Method.

1. Go to Craigslist.org Click on your State, and the closest big city to you.

2. Look at the For Sale Section. Click on FREE.

3. Post or Search for something that you need, that you could buy, that you can get locally for FREE.

I did this when I my nice and fancy flat screen computer monitor died about 7 months ago. I got a few goofy emails to my Post in the Free Section of Craigslist, and I got a few good ones. One girl was willing to meet me and Carol at the local Wal Mart.

Because we took a few minutes to post on Craigslist – Free Section:

• We got a replacement computer monitor for absolutely nothing.
• We met interesting people.
• We helped prevent the next big oil spill….

“Because every single time you don’t buy something largely made of PLASTIC – which is made from PRETROLEUM – and every time you help someone NOT put something good in a land fill – WE ALL WIN!”

Let me know how you use this strategy to -

1.  Save money.

2.  Meet people.

3.  Spare the world.

Mr Twenty Twenty

This post was inspired by my mastermind partner and friend Todd Silva, who is changing the way he flushes his toilet, to help prevent the next big oil spill.

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There is a Dark Side To Google that you probably don’t know about.

No, I am not talking about them tracking your every movement, or knowing where you live, or noticing what you search for…

I am talking about this:

“We just don’t talk anymore!”

Think about this, back in the old days, if we had a problem or a question – we didn’t RUN not walk to Google, we took our time, and decided WHO can I ask or confide in.

Who can I ask for help?
Who can I trust with my problem?

Going to PEOPLE FIRST brought us as PEOPLE closer together.

As my mentors would say, “It’s not the DATA that is important, it’s the PEOPLE you learn from.”

Take your time today, and every day. I double dog dare you to do what Carol and I do everyday.  Unleash the power of people in your life!  In the end, it’s the people, not Google, that matters!

If we have a problem or a question, before going to GOOGLE – we ask each other, and we try to find a person who can answer our question. It’s bringing us closer to our friends, families, neighbors, even strangers.

Give it a try, let me know how that works for you!

Mr Twenty Twenty

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What will you do that the masses are content sitting on their asses thinking is impossible?

Leave a comment below, I double dog dare you!

Mr Twenty Twenty

Grandpa used to say that, he was a wise and well respected man in the community.  And he was well accomplished too.  My friend who was a F-4 pilot, he LIVED by that rule.  And he survived a lot of things he shouldn’t, both in the cockpit, and in daily life.  So it’s worth repeating, “First things first.”

“First things first.  How are you perceiving the world?”  If you take care of this bit, the rest of the story becomes much easier.

Let me share 2 quick examples of what I mean.  Feel free to apply liberally.

1.  To my friends who are in the NLP – Pick Up Artist world, if you want to become a babe magnet – instead of having to be a babe manipulator – here is your first thing.   STOP putting on women the responsibility to keep you satisfied and your self esteem in existence.  Then START learning how to actually put your ATTENTION on the woman you are with.  Learn how to put attention on her, and I can help you do that, and you’ll be a babe magnet.   Almost no man can consistently let his attention really settle on a woman, those who can, give to them tremendously.

2.  To my friends who are trying to succeed in biz – both online and off, STOP focusing on your biz, START focusing on helping customers, potential customers, and clients with something they are willing to give you money for.  Great ideas are great ideas, and profitable ideas are profitable ideas.  Sometimes they overlap, often they don’t.   Learn the difference.

So, we’ve solved relationships, and money so far today.  What else could we do, in our short time together?

• STOP thinking it’s about what we think it’s about.
• START putting the focus where it really matters.

Real life awareness of what you are, and what’s going on (they are functionally the same, but that’s another story) is priceless, and worth MEGATONS more than any THINKING.

So…

STOP THINKING. –  START NOTICING.

See the pattern?

Whooo Yah!

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PS:  What you are is “the flame”.   How you experience “you” and “your world” is through clouds.  Everything I am writing about here is about “your clouds”.

“Learn how to optimize your clouds, and you get to discover that you are far above them, like the sun in the sky.”

Sometime the previous winter, The Dark Night descended upon me, and all that I was, or more accurately all that I thought I was, was dying.

“Silence.  All I saw when I looked into their eyes, was God.  I watched every one of them, pretending – denying that they were God.  Identifying with their habits, their history, their possessions, their traumas and their skills.  Me, I knew that it all was illusion, all a cosmic joke.  Humans, we have the gift to forget what we really are, and then forget that we forgot even that.”

I had tried to explain several times during that fall and winter, that “I was dying”.   The man who I was, who I had pretended to be for so long, didn’t exist.  I went back and forth, noticing God in all things, and noticing nothing, being – nothing.

Yet, I was life. And life is love, God, the Divine, nothing more, nothing less.   There was no hope, there was no faith, there was no belief to hang on to, there was only being.

That Friday evening in March, we watched Joan of Arcadia – a high school girl, get told that she never saw or talked to God.  We watched her “reality” fall apart.

About a month later, I looked into 5 sets of eyes, and I saw nothing but God looking back at me.

Why am I writing this?  Because, for a long long time, I have aspired to be a fraud.  I have aspired to do what almost everyone on planet earth is doing.  I have aspired to pretend, that “this all matters”.  I have aspired to pretend that “what isn’t real, is real.”

“I’m here to tell you, you don’t exist.  The you that you think you are, never was.  It’s a dream, it’s a nightmare, it’s a fantasy.  And it all pales compared to the reality that you are.”

I am here to tell you, what you are, does exist.  It / you can not die.  What you are holds the world.

Now what do I write?  What can I share?

“This is the most honest, complete writing I have ever done.  Will anyone care?  Will anyone be blessed by this?“

Words can’t do this justice.  Words at best relate a concept about an experience.  And you are far more cool than any concept or experience.

More to come.

Mr Twenty Twenty

PS:  So when I meet people, for the first time, for the millionth time, all I see in their eyes, is God.  Mostly what I see in their behavior is them attempting to deny or forget it.   The good news, people are really hyper successful at this.

The other good news, is that at anytime, you can commit to stop being a fraud, you can commit to stop pretending, you can discover you, and the world that you hold.

It isn’t about money, success, or even doing what you are designed or destined to do, though that is important.  It’s about you, discovering clarity, about what you really are.

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